My babies,my way!

4 JULY 2014

My babies,my way!

I never let my babies "cry it out"... It's too cruel and heartless to do so!

Screw those who chide me for carrying (and gently rocking or swaying them even though they weren't crying or anything) them, saying that it'll make the kids used to it and need to be rocked all the time.

Screw those who say I'm so bar-pai or particular and stare at me cz I wipe every public babychair and table or trolley before putting them in, and wipe their tiny fingers before they eat, and after they get into the car. And try not to expose thm to other kids (or adults) who are sick and do not have the common sense or basic courtesy not to go near othr kids. They are MY kids and I don't want to see them sick (and I feel so sad and seeing them ill). Also, these ignorant ppl obviously haven't heard of HFM disease that is very contagious too.

Screw those who tell me I shd not immediately kiss and soothe thm and chided me for being so "dramatic" when they fell down, even when they were not in pain or didn't cry) cz according to them, "it'll make the kids more manja and less independent." so what? I like thm to manja with me, I like thm to stick to me and come to me for the slightest reason, to know that I'm there to comfort them regardless if it's a big or small boo-boo. Afterall, it's only for these precious few years. When they grow up, I can't do it anymore.

Screw those who ask me why i still like to carry them even though they are getting heavier by the day. I like them to be close to me , to kiss and smell them, and whisper to them. So what? Kenot mehhh? I like their baby smell. u blow arr? (你吹咩?)

Song in Your Heart - note to my boy

5 FEBRUARY 2015

Song in Your Heart - note to my boy

5/2/15 - Exposing u to music even before u were born&.every day till.now has proven to be the best move I have ever made.
And all those music videos on different apes and YouTube like Super Simple Songs, Storybots, Muffin.Songs, Pink Long, etc have worked their charms on you.
Im glad u love music and singing.
You'd hv song requests, even before u started talking, like swishing yr arms for Wheels of the Bus, and you'd say clock when u wanted Hickory Dickory Dock.
As yr speech progressed, you'd utter a couple of words fr the lyrics for yr requests and now, you could name some of the songs already and ask.me to sing Vigolin, Skeleton (Dance), even Moon River, Love is Blue& Big, Big Girl.
initially, u didn't like Beautiful Winter Day bcz of it being in.a minor key, but now, u want mummy to sing it every night ^_^
You'd sing or hum to yourself now. and you're "almos there" despite some pitching& lyrics clarity misses. All these, u learned by MEMORY.
子昇, mummy is so, so, so proud of u.
I hope that you will continue to enjoy and appreciate good musIc as u grow up, not necessarily to be a good musician, but to allow music to enrich yr everyday life <3 span="">

I want to remember you this way - Note to my babies

10 MARCH 2015

 

I want to remember you this way - Note to my babies

I hug and kiss u at every opportunity... U come to me, asking to be hugged and hugged again, and to be kissed and kissed again... U want me to pat pat your head and hold your hand... and each time, I gladly do it. You want me to carry you, and even though it's bad for my back, I still do it without complaint. You want me to read the same books and sing the same songs over and over again, and even though I'm dead tired and feeling blue, I try to give in (unless if I'm driving during very bad traffic or weather...
I dread the day you wont wanna hold my hand anymore, and getting a hug fr u would be the most impossible thing of all...
I try to savour and remember every little touch, every little thing... and yr little self... and keep thm all locked up in my heart... <3 span="">